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Thoughts and looking back – January 20, 2018

Past Thursday Princess and I had quite an interesting conversation. It was about sex with others. We have The Stranger and we’ve visited a swingers club twice. Princess enjoys the sex and I enjoy leading her to it. Watching her is a big turn on for me.
Yet I find it difficult to, as a wise man once said, grab some pussy for myself.

I’ll be writing about this in a few days when all this is more clear in my head.

BDSM is not necessarily about sex but when Princess and I play at our home, in private, it often ends with lovemaking. It could be nothing more than me going down on Princess. One for the road so to speak.

Lately though the SM has become so intense; holding each other while sleep submerges us is extremely satisfying.

At a club BDSM is non-sexual.
When we visit a swingers club we have some kind of D/s routine that leads to lots of sex for Princess.

Obviously inviting The Stranger is about BDSM and threesomes and lots of sex.

I’m very busy with my upcoming eBook “Princess and I, The Year 2014”. It is about 260 pages long and I’m trying to get out as many typos as possible.

Browsing through the extensive Word-document I find stuff I had forgotten or that makes me smile.

In 2014 The Stranger was still an unborn fantasy. Yet at that time I was already telling Princess sexy stories about us visiting erotic parties. When we just met, some 2,5 years earlier, Spermslut was the first of a long series of erotic and sexy personae.

Recently Princess admitted she knew from the beginning all these slutty characters were variations of herself. An early Inga if you will.

One of my posts in September 2014 was about my erotic bucket list.
Little over 3 years later it is interesting to see what happened with that list written by a man who is still evolving sexually.

I would like to add electro play. It seems like fun and I am sure it will incite my inspiration and imagination when it comes to sex even more.
Done. Tens and a Neon Wand. Unfortunately it is not something Princess likes very much. It depends on how I use the Tens but the Neon Wand freaks her out.

I would like to go to a swinger’s party with Princess. Not one held in a sleazy shack where everybody is fucking like animals. Something statelier like held in a manor or castle. Think big, think Eyes Wide Shut. We would enjoy watching the couples and then enjoy being watched. Not sharing of course.
Done albeit it wasn’t a castle or nearly as intimidating as in the movie. It wasn’t a sleazy shack either. Seeing people fuck like animals is, for us both, a huge turn-on.
Note the last phrase, Not sharing of course. Hell, I didn’t see that one coming yet in 2014 although the fantasy was already there.

I would enjoy helping Princess discover and experiment with her bi-curiosity. I know it is something that lays buried deep in a dark corner of her fantasies. Obviously it would be with a woman of her choice and in a safe environment. Of course I imagine guiding Princess, slowly displaying her goodies and I would savor watching her kiss and touch and discover. It would be something for Princess only and I would touch her female partner with my eyes only. I have no desire whatsoever to have my way with someone else. Princess satisfies me completely in all my needs. Princess gorgeous and luscious body is all I will ever want and need.
Done and just recently by the way. A day before Christmas Eve 2017 and it kind of just happened. Amongst other things it show how Princess is enjoying her sexuality and how she feels safe in it.
I was wrong in what I wrote. Bi-curiosity is not lurking in a dark corner of Princesses fantasy. That was just wishful thinking.  Bi-curiosity is for Princess a been there, done that kind of situation in her life before we met.

Tying up, fucking and making love to Princess in the woods or on rocks near a pond should be very hot too.
Done. I made love to Princess on a deserted beach in Denmark (2016). It was a warm and sunny afternoon and she was lying naked over a rock. She wasn’t tied up for the simple reason that I did not have any rope with me. Nevertheless it was extremely hot.

I like the idea of jars and fire and massaging.
We came very close during a workshop in PDN. Fire play fascinates us both. A jar and fire sucks the skin in and leaves like quite an impressive hickey. Not something I want Princess to have when at her place the bathroom is shared.

It is Saturday evening. In a few hours Princess will be here. Little A. is here too so my love and I are going to watch a movie. We are going to enjoy a good glass of white wine and “Blade Runner 2049

Blindfolded.
Model: Lena Rogerdottir / Setup & image: Me

Thoughts – January 19, 2018

Recently the guy I selected to become The Stranger 3 wrote me a mail informing me politely he was not interested anymore.  His lack of experience with BDSM and threesomes was the cause for his concern.
I respect his decision and I’m still following him on Fet.

Princess and I have a playdate with The Stranger 1 on February 13 at his place. The Stranger wants to discover and explore his Dominant side. I’ll make sure the scenario will offer him enough opportunities to do just that.

The Stranger 1 also expressed his wish to accompany us to Club 78. That’s great.
On our very first date with The Stranger 1, over a year ago, we took him to PDN. He enjoyed the visit but he was too shy and insecure to play with us in public.

In Club 78 we can move to the Upper Floor and play in a more private setting.

I’m happy with The Stranger 1. We don’t meet often and that is okay for the three of us. But he makes himself gladly available when Princess and I want to play.
He’s single so this could change over time. On the other hand, I know he would love to meet somebody in the lifestyle. So who knows, maybe one day we’ll be 4 playing together.

This time it was Princess who asked me to set up a playdate with The Stranger 1. I’m perfectly okay with that and it does not make me feel insecure or threatened in any way. Besides, when we visit a swingers club it mostly is because Princess proposed it. After all, as she is the active player, I prefer going when Princess really hot and good.

At the moment I’m working very hard on a collection of eBooks based upon our blog.

I self-published “Princess and I, The Early Years” less than a year ago. The free e-book has been download 141 times already.

It is quite some work so maybe I’ll charge like 0,99$ or so, I’m not sure yet.

Tomorrow in the early evening my Ex invited both our daughters and me at her place. It about my Ex moving. This will/could mean Little A., soon to be 18, will be living almost full time with me during the remainder of her studies. That would be quite nice.

This will have a huge impact on me as I’ve been living alone for the past 11 years. Well except for the 2 weekends a month and the half of the school holidays. My daughter and I will surely have to adapt.

Another very important impact and probably the most important will be the lack of privacy at my place for Princess and me to play.

I have come up with a few possible solutions. But for now, the meeting hasn’t happened yet so I have no idea what will be discussed.
More on this topic in later posts.

Clothespins.
Model: Lena Rogerdottir / Photo & setup: Me

Meet Inga

Inga is beautiful. Long blonde hair. Her slim body delicious.
Inga is hot. Scorching hot would be an even better definition.

Inga emanates sexiness. She is self-confident. She is an absolute exhibitionist. Her body an erotic playground.

Inga is a cock hungry slut but at times enjoys some juicy pussy too.
Why fuck one man when you can have the attention of two or three? And then some.

In the swingers club Inga wears very sexy lingerie. Cuffs on ankles and wrists.

She also wears a lovely small and discrete collar. The leash is a silver chain.
We try to add a pinch of BDSM to our swingers experience.

I walk Inga around the club and show her off and ask men if they fancy her.
They always do.
Those men with their greedy eyes and hands. Their cocks hard and horny.

Inga loves it when I attach her wrists to her ankle cuffs. Lying on her back, widespread, Inga waits, impatient, for the man or men I select to enjoy her.

Inga is still evolving.
I guide her. I lead her.
Inga is mine.
I am her owner and her Master.

Princess came up with Inga. It is her alter ego. Inga thrives on sex like Princess on rope and SM.
Both enjoy the D/s dynamic.

I love and enjoy them both.
Princess and Inga, the love of my life.
My heart, breath and soul.

Breath Play.
Model: Lena Rogerdottir / Setup & image: Me

The Stranger 3?

About a week ago I wrote a post titled connecting with a couple.

Both are kind of newbies when it comes to BDSM. Johnny and June are eager to learn. Their dynamic is Top/bottom as friends with benefits. Johnny enjoys rope play and June loves being a lust slave. Find the post HERE.

Saturday, December 16, Princess and I visited Fetish Club78 and it was a great experience. Princess thought this was an ideal place to meet the couple in January.

The day after, Sunday, Johnny sent me a PM on Fetlife informing me it was over with June. I felt bad for him and wrote back some encouraging thoughts.

We had communicated a lot and I felt he and I were on the same wavelength.

I told him I’d love to stay in touch.

June sent me a PM too and I wished her good luck. She added she was sure Johnny would be a very good The Stranger 3.

So back to square one and I can’t say I was unhappy with how things finally turned out. Don’t get me wrong, I am sorry Johnny and June broke up.

Looking back on the PM’s with Johnny and the talks with Princess, I started feeling uneasy about the whole idea.
To be honest playing with another sub/slave or with two isn’t my piece of cake. I’m willing to try of course but what we’ve been doing, playing with an extra man, I like more.

The Stranger, the swingers club, Princess behaving as a dirty little slut under my guidance, turns me on big time.
I’m pretty sure it rocks Princesses’ world too.

Princess knows I like Johnny’s way of thinking. When I asked her if I could introduce him as The Stranger 3 she said hell yes.

This morning I got a PM from Johnny telling me he’d like to be The Stranger 3.
That’s a good thing.

We’ll be putting together a hot scenario.

I’m thinking about making it happen in a BDSM-club. Both PDN and Club78 rent rooms so that’s ideal for an after-party if there is a mutual click.

It is Tuesday and thus our evening. I’m preparing a hot play-evening at our place.

I’ll make good use of the Christmas present I bought for Princess at Club78 and make some photographs.

I’m revealing a little something about this present with this photograph.

Christmas gift for Princess – detail.

 

Sometimes shit happens

Saturday, December 9.
For this evening I had planned a play evening with Princess at The Stranger’s place. He and I had exchanged ideas by mail.

The scenario I had created was scorching hot. Princess would be dominated and used. Spanking, rope, cock sucking, crawling, begging, fucking and finally a threesome. The works.

This morning I packed my bag with a few floggers, the fuck stick, a few vibrators, some rope and rubbers. Of course I did not forget Princesses’ red kneeling cushion, collar, and leash.

Then I texted The Stranger asking if 21:00 would be okay. In fact I hadn’t heard from him since Monday when I mailed him instructions. He had answered me he hardly could wait.

Half an hour later The Stranger texted me back. He could not receive us because past night he suddenly had become ill. He told me he was very sorry but we could meet on another weekend.

It would have been our fifth play evening.
Sure, shit does happen.
Yet I was almost certain this would happen. It was not the first time he cancelled a play evening on a last-minute notice.

I needed to reschedule and texted Princess a few options. 
We both felt very unhappy as we were really looking forward for some hot action.

This evening I am taking Princess to a sauna we visit quite often.
Yet I would have loved going to a swingers club. For some reason though I did not put in my list of proposals for Princess.
I don’t know why and now I’m kind of regretting it.

Ah well, sauna is great too.

Escalator

Thoughts on next Saturday, December 9

It has been a long day. A day of cleaning and making sure his place is shining and neat. It takes his thoughts away from what is about to happen. Hell, he would be masturbating all day by the mere idea.

He hasn’t though. Now he is hot as hell and his throbbing cock painfully hard. Deep in his balls the jizz feels like scorching hot magma. His cock is in desperate need to erupt.

Finally it is evening. Almost nine o’clock.
The doorbell rings.
The Stranger smiles. Franco is a man of many qualities. Being spot in time is one of them.

He opens the door.
Franco extends a greeting hand.
Their shake is firm and warm.
“Please do come in.”

Franco enters. Princess follows him. Franco has her on a leash. She keeps a submissive posture, eyes down. Doesn’t say a word.

Inside Franco takes off her coat. Princess is wearing cuffs on her ankles and wrists. High heels, black stay-ups, a dark green skirt with an edge of black lace. A white blouse with buttons all the way down.

No bra The Stranger notices. Her nipples are hard and very visible through the thin fabric.

With a short yank of the leash Franco directs Princess to the sofa.
“Drop your cushion here,” he says.
He sits down and positions the red pillow.
“Kneel.”
“Yes Master,” she says. Since some time now Princess has expressed her wish to be not only his submissive but also his slave.

Princess complies. Her behind on her heels, hands on her knees. It is a position she can hold for quite some time.
Princess rests her cheek on Franco’s thigh. It is so cozy. It makes her feel safe.

Princess is so very happy. Over the years her Master has opened a whole new world for her. BDSM and sex is a huge candy store in which she enjoys tasting everything. A world where is as free as a butterfly.

She feels his soothing hand on her head, caressing her with deep love and care.

A year ago, after delving deep in her most secret fantasies, her Master had unearthed another box.

All her adult life Princess had been aware of its existence. She had stored that box in an almost unreachable place. It was her Pandora’s box and it held unlimited sexual freedom. Nobody had found it because she would not let it.
Until a year or so ago.

Deep down she knew her Master would be the worthy finder and owner of this treasure. Princess knew he would lead and protect her with respect and love.

So she let her Master find it. Unearth it and open it.

And as Princess had hoped with some fear, he had unleashed her sexuality. He had helped her discover and explore that new-found freedom. It was an arousing sexual freedom and it liberated the slut in her.

It had taken time though. Princess always had known being used made her very hot and did things to her body and mind she could hardly explain. Obviously she had to overcome a part of her upbringing that stood in the way.

Her Master had been patient and respectful. Her Master had guided her, letting her take one step at the time.

Little over a year ago Princess had experienced the joy of sex for pleasure and lust with another man.

Her Master had introduced The Stranger. She had sucked his cock and he had fucked her while her Master watched and then participated.

Princess had seen the pleasure and lust in her Master’s eyes while he read the same in hers.

After that he made her discover the pleasures of a threesome. Being fucked while sucking dick had been a maddening experience.

After that he had introduced yet another man, The Stranger 2. He too had fucked and used her hard while her Master gave directions and simply enjoyed watching.

Then her Master had taken her to a swingers club. Princess discovered a new kind of candy store. That evening he let two men, not together though, fuck her and she almost lost her mind. It was a mind-blowing experience.
It had brought them closer than ever and their trust became absolutely unbreakable.

Princess closes her eyes and enjoys the warmth of her Master’s thigh on her cheek.

“Drinks?” The Stranger asks.
The evening is about to start. Princess knows her Master and The Stranger will use her as the slut she is. She will do her very best to please them both and obey every order her Master gives.

The thought makes her wet already.
She can hardly wait.

 

 

 

 

The Stranger – 5th installment

 My youngest daughters decision with whom she stays for the weekend can be a last-minute one.
 
This has an influence on our plans. It is particularly true when I want to invite a 2nd man like The Stranger.
 
I hate to cancel last-minute.
So why not organise a play evening at his place?
 
I visited The Stranger at his place a couple of weeks ago. We talked and made plans and finally decided we would play at his place.
 
Those who follow my blog know The Stranger is a submissive man.
 
The Stranger surprised me when he told me he wanted to discover his Dominant side too. The Stranger has a huge collection of BDSM comics where women are sex slaves. Think Erenisch Comics for example.
So I’ll be coaching him and I like that idea. It is a honour to do this and have his trust.
 
I liked the idea of creating a scene at his house as it offered quite some erotic possibilities. Princess wants to discover her fuckslut alter ego. I am more than happy to guide and lead Princess.
 
Saturday, December 9, we’ll be playing at The Stranger’s place.
 
My scenario for that evening will be loosely based on the older and better clips of The Upper Floor by kink.com.
 
It will be about BDSM but I’ll present Princess as the ultimate fuck slut. Two very horny men and a tied up woman is a great and hot combination.
 
I can’t tell more because Princess reads my blog and I want to keep the evening a secret.
On December 9 I will ring the bell at The Stranger’s apartment.
I’ll have Princess with me. Collared and on a leash.

First Swingers Club Visit – Post scriptum

Yesterday it dawned on me I had forgotten a detail in my account of the swingers club visit.

An important detail as a matter of fact. We haven’t turned into swingers overnight. Princess and I are still hard-core BDSM lovers.

Back home from the club I made love to Princess. It was very intense, caring and loving but also hard and rough. The way Princess and I like it.

We had to take 5. We needed to catch our breath.
Princess and I kissed, our hearts pounding as mad.

“Aren’t you forgetting something, Milord?” Princess sighed.
I hadn’t a clue and told her so.
“Maybe you should punish me. Haven’t I been a very bad girl?” she smiled.

This one of the many reasons why I am so much in love with Princess. She has it all. Princess is pure and perfect.

I knew what Princess wanted. I got out of bed and grabbed my cane.
“Turn around, on your belly,” I growled.
I started with some teasing and a few gentle blows.

“You have been a very bad and dirty girl, fucking around like that,” I told her, increasing the impact of the blows. I made sure I hit her on the same spot over and over. Then I moved half an inch and started again.

Soon Princesses’ delicious behind was deep red. She looked at me with a deep smile, eyes half open. For the zillionth time this evening Princess was enjoying deep sub-space.

I called it a night and covered Princesses’ naked body. Gently I kissed her neck and shoulder blades.

Princess moaned and was asleep before I killed the lights.

 

First Swingers Club Visit – Thoughts

Our first visit to a swingers club left Princess and I with a jumble of sensations and stimuli.
I needed a few days to separate all my impressions and put them in order.
So did Princess.

Princess told me she enjoyed herself so much it had staggered her.
It came as no surprise to me.

The many mind-fucks, finally leading to The Stranger(s) and the threesomes, revealed Princesses’ dark fantasies about being used.
With a few threesomes at our place, a safe and controllable environment, I gave Princesses’ desires a manageable shape.
I discovered that watching Princess having sex with another man is a hot and mind blowing experience. Simply organizing such an event makes me very horny already.

Furthermore it brings us even closer and deepens in some crazy way the intense connection we already have. I don’t feel jealous or threatened.
Seeing how Princess enjoys being fucked and used convinced me to explore this more in-depth.

Princess told me she was feeling so sexy, desired, and horny she could have fucked the whole club that evening.
Wow.

The first man that evening alternated licking and fucking. I remember him asking at a certain point what she wanted most: licking or more fucking.
“More fucking,” she whispered barely audible.
While he started thrusting again, Princess found my eyes.
“I love you, Milord,” she sighed smiling, and sank her teeth deep in my shoulder.
Wow.

She floated in what seemed like a continuous state of sub-space.

Princess told me she had been looking forward visiting a swingers club for some time. She added the experience had been overwhelming. It had astonished her how much she had enjoyed it. How she had learned something unexpected about herself.
Princess added she wanted to repeat the experience.

For me visiting a swingers club had been on my wish list for a few decades.

Sharing this with Princess was an honor.
The experience exceeded my fantasy. I enjoyed every bit of it.

Presenting Princess to another man as a fuck toy made me so horny it drove me almost crazy. The power of being able to do that gave me indescribable pleasure.
Watching Princess being fucked maddening.
I felt self-confident.
Turning Princess into a fuck slut, an ongoing process, extremely satisfying.
Seeing how men reacted to Princess, with distinct lust, made me very proud of the love of my life.

Princess and I felt like ducks to water.

On the negative side I found the dim light took some of my visual pleasures away.

On our way back home the longing to make love to Princess was painfully unbearable. The thought of making love to Princess, with the smell and taste of sex all over her, maddening to an extent my brain felt like exploding.

This adventure brought us closer than anybody can be. The level of trust between us even more absolute. I don’t think one can do something like that and not trust each other.

My love for Princess has deepened even more. Our bond now exceedingly unbreakable.

It was a totally positive experience for the both of us and it left us hungry for more.

First Swingers Club Visit – Part 2

There we were, Princess and I, lying next to each other in a dark alcove. Princess was sighing and moaning while a man was licking her.
Princess grabbed my hand. In the dim light I could see her looking at me. She squeezed my hand, arched her back and came mumbling thank you.
“Oh…” and came again.
And again.
On the way back home she told me this guy was fingering her ass while licking her. A maddening experience she added. Duly noted my dear. 
“Can I fuck your girlfriend?” he asked.
“Sure,” I told him, “be my guest.”
He grabbed a condom and swiftly penetrated Princess.
The man fucked her hard. Very hard.
At the sound of it he seemed to have a very good time.
“Ain’t she a great fuck? ” I asked.
“Oh yes,” he growled, “oh god, her pussy is so tight. You are a lucky son of a bitch, having such a delicious girlfriend.”
My question had encouraged him even more. He was pounding Princess harder and harder.
Princess screamed and sighed while trying to kiss me.
 
After a short while he pulled out and started licking again. It made Princess come and then some more.
Fucking.
Licking & fingering ass.
The man went on and on, insatiable it seemed.
 
Then he pulled out again.
“What do you want,” he asked, “being licked or fucked?”
“Fuck me,” Princess whispered.
Her words made me rock-hard with desire.
 
The man went on. Alternating the fucking with licking and fingering her ass.
His breathing intensified.
He started moving slower.
Then he pushed his pelvis forward, penetrating Princess as deep as possible.

I kissed Princess while he came.

 

Then it was over.
He thanked us, got rid of his condom and disappeared. Throughout the evening though he was always in our immediate surroundings. Winking, giving a thumb up, smiling. He even held Princesses’  hand unsolicited while she was having sex with another man. I had to chase him away.
 

Back at the bar we ordered new drinks. Went to the small movie theater. On the silver screen a happy looking rastaman was fucking a big breasted woman. She had a lot of dark pubic hair and we both found it rather erotic.

 

Single men were running around, hard cocks in their hands, masturbating.
Some glory holes had penises sticking out of them. Nobody cared. Princess told me if one of these nameless cocks had a condom around it she would have sucked it.
That’s my girl.
 
Back at the bar we enjoyed observing the dance floor.
hen I noticed him.
A middle-aged man sitting at the bar. He looked okay albeit somewhat nerdy.
“I promised I’d pick a guy for you to fuck, ” I told Princess.
“Yes, you did and a promise is a promise, ” she smiled.

“Come,” I said and we moved to the other side of the bar, next to where the guy was sitting.
I ordered two cokes.
I started kissing Princess, turning her back towards him while I moved my hand to her buttocks.

Then, in one swift movement I turned Princess and myself around. She was now facing the guy and I was standing behind her.
“Isn’t she a doll?” I asked to the guy.

“Oh yes,” he stuttered, completely taken off guard.

 

“Touch her, feel how soft and warm her ass is,” I encouraged him, turning Princess around once again.
Hesitantly he put his hand on her hip and then moved to her ass.
“Take it slow now,” I smiled, “enjoy, don’t be greedy.”
Princess started kissing me while the man’s hands explored her buttocks.
I turned her around again so she was facing the man.

We chitchatted and he told us it was his first time. He divorced after 20 or so years. Blah blah blah…
 
I lowered a cup from her bra and he bent forward, licking her nipple.
Princesses tongue danced around mine. I was having a ball, playing with this man’s desires.
From the corner of my eye I noticed how Princesses’ hand found its way in the man’s boxer. She pulled out his dick and started playing with it.
Soon he had his hand in her pantie. He was making the right moves as Princess held me tighter and closer.
 
I noticed how we had the full attention of another couple. I guess for a first time Princess and I were doing very well.
For a moment I hoped this couple would in some way connect with us later on as I fancied the woman. That did not happen though.
 
The man was now completely swept away with what was happening.
 
Then I covered Princesses’ breast.
He looked at me, astonished. Princess still had his cock in a firm grip, moving her fist up and down in a very slow, teasing pace.
Before he could say something I asked him if he enjoyed eating pussy.
He said yes, stumbling over his words, the poor man.
I turned to Princess.
“It is your lucky evening,” I smiled.
I grabbed her hair and told the man to follow us.
Most of the private booths were already taken. One had two beds and there was an unoccupied mattress. .
 
I pushed Princess down on the bed and removed her string. I spread her legs and told the man to make her cum at least two times. I promised he could fuck her after accomplishing the task.
 
I held Princess in my arms and she played with my cock while the guy did his very best.
Then Princess came.
And then a second time.

It was not as intense as with the ass-fingering guy but it were good ones she told me afterwards.

 

He looked at me.
“Grab a rubber”, I told him.
Soon he was fucking the love of my life.
Princess and I close, eyes locked in each other.
I felt every stroke.
 
Then he came.
Thanked us.
Left.
I started fingering Princess.
Then guy number one appeared out of nowhere. Dropped his boxer hoping Princess would suck him.
“Go away,” I said.
“Okay. Sorry.”
 
Another guy was caressing Princesses leg. He looked okay.
For a moment I hesitated.
I almost told him to grab a rubber and fuck Princess.
But it had been enough for a first visit.
I wanted to make sure Princess was okay.
 

It was almost midnight. There was the loud music. The disco ball. People having fun.

 

“Let’s go home, ” I told Princess. “I am longing for you. I want to make love to you. I want to make you mine again.”

 

“I want to be yours only, ” Princess whispered.

“Back home you’ll get in bed immediately,” I growled. “No showering, understand? I want to make love with while I taste and smell the other men on you. You hear me?”
Princess shivered and grabbed my hand. Kissed me for what seemed like eons. 
It was the  perfect answer.
To be continued
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