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Toot-Toot Blog Tour Coming Through

My friend Vile has invited me to join his “Blog Tour,” which I accept with great appreciation and pleasure. So thank you, Vile.
I am a big fan of his blog The Kinky World of Vile and if you don’t know it then check it out.

What is the idea behind this Blog Tour?
It’s pretty simple. Answer the 4 questions about yourself and post the answers on your blog page and then invite a few other bloggers that you admire to join in on the fun and include links to their blogs on your page.

What am I working on at the moment?
Princess and I are shooting BDSM inspired photographs. It is an ongoing project we work on when we feel like doing so. It is private stuff or images for my blog.
A few weeks ago I started my Thursday’s Photograph project. The idea behind this project is to be creative “on command”.
I would love to write short stories, I have even a few plot lines ready. The only thing holding me back is my limited notion of the English language.

How does my work differ from others of its genre?
I have no idea if it does differ and if so in what way. I know my writing is mostly very personal. It is a very private, honest and, I hope, inspiring diary I am sharing with the world.

Why do I write what I do?
I enjoy reading about the lifestyle we, Princess and I, share. It helps me grow, helps me better understand the underlying dynamics and how they work together. Writing about the lifestyle forces me to think even deeper over what we do, how we experience and live it. It helps me grow even more as a partner and a Dominant. I also like to ventilate how beneficial this BDSM relationship is for Princess and me. Writing also helps me canalize my thoughts.

How does my writing process work?
I spend about 2 hours a day driving to and from work. Most of my ideas are born during these moments of relative solitude. For some reason there are ideas that rapidly become more viable than others. Then I start processing this newborn, narrating it in my head, moulding it until it is a story or a post.  I cross-out, reshape and modify my text in my mind. This part can take an hour or a few days.
When I finally write it down my text is almost in its definitive shape.
Sitting in front of my computer with an empty document to start with does not work for me. I find it, for example, very difficult writing a reply to a post on the fly.

 Here are 4 bloggers I love reading and would like to invite on this tour.

Stella Kiink

Love Hate Sex Cake – Musings of a libidinous life

Little Kaninchen

My life as a Sexually Submissive Woman

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Versatile Blogger Award

I would like to thank you, Southern Sir, for nominating this blog with The Versatile Blogger Award. Receiving this award is not only very motivating but also a sign of appreciation and both pleasure me very much.
This is a shared award as Princess is also a contributor to this blog with Princess’ Corner. Princess sends you, Sir, the tiniest of hugs as I keep her on a short leash 🙂

 Versatile Blogger Award

Let me start with telling you 7 things about me/us.

Sharing the D/s lifestyle with Princess has taught me a few new things about myself. Some of them have been dormant, some are discoveries.  I’m a mild sadist and I have voyeuristic and exhibitionist tendencies too and so is Princess with the difference that she is a mild masochist.

Princess makes a chilli con carne to die for.

I don’t eat sweets or munch from a cake nor do I like chips.

I don’t like seafood but enjoy mussels, smoked salmon and sushi very much.

Princess and I just love de-stressing in a public sauna.

On a few occasions Princess and I briefly had sex in the pool of the sauna we visit. It was a very arousing experience doing so while there was somebody swimming and we stood in a corner of that same swimming pool. We only go in the evenings and the room is sparsely lit.

When I look in my heart and in my soul I can say in all honesty that I have never ever loved someone the way I love my Princess. She is the One I’ve been waiting for, she is my Grail.


Now for my nominees and that is not an easy choice. SouthernSIr has nominated most of those I had in mind and there is so much great stuff that maybe is never mentioned.

Karen A. Sullivan – Wildfire8470 ** Erotica, Stories and Books

Alice’s Secret Sex Diary – StoryOfAlice ** Very well written and beautiful images. I am just starting the discovery of this blog.

Stella Kiink – Stella Kiink ** There are times to be vanilla and times you just have to get your kink on.

Hyacinth Jones – A Dissolute Life Means…  ** A very fine erotic blog I enjoy reading.

the Master’s Slave ~ a journal of love ** Fine erotica and poetry illustrated with beautiful images

His Beloved Submissive is about the daily life of a submissive wife. I did not find a way to contact the author of this blog.

Art of Stumbling for the content, the beauty and the creativity.

Desiree – SeaOfDesire ** Very fine erotica in text and poetry.

Erotica by Eva. St. James – SmuttyWords ** I love spending time on this blog.

Les Hauts De Hurle Valence ** A very versatile non erotic blog, written in French and well worth your time.

Surrendered Heart
** Another of those wonderful and well written erotic blogs.

Very Inspirational Blogger Award

Very Inspirational Blogger Award

Joseph McNamara nominated me for The Very Inspiring Blogger Award. I am very grateful for this honor; it is a token of appreciation given by someone who is very inspiring himself.

The Rules

1. Display the award logo on your blog.
2. Link back to the person who nominated you.
3. State 7 things about yourself.
4. Nominate 15 other bloggers for this award and link to them.
5. Notify those bloggers of the nomination and the award’s requirements.

Here are 7 things about myself

1. Professionally speaking I’m a self-made man.
2. I am most definitely a cat person.
3. Princess is the love of my life.
4. I enjoy writing more than taking photographs. Before I met Princess it was the opposite.
5. I’m an Atheist.
6. I prefer giving rather than receiving.
7. I am a Dom.

My nominees

WISIWIS (What I See Is What I Shoot)
Mark R. Milan
Two Gallants
Mae’s Day
Lust & Rum
Before I Forget
Life Lived Now
Victor Rakmil Photography
Submissive Musings
Rebel’s Notes
Surrendered Heart