Past Thursday Princess and I had quite an interesting conversation. It was about sex with others. We have The Stranger and we’ve visited a swingers club twice. Princess enjoys the sex and I enjoy leading her to it. Watching her is a big turn on for me.
Yet I find it difficult to, as a wise man once said, grab some pussy for myself.
I’ll be writing about this in a few days when all this is more clear in my head.
BDSM is not necessarily about sex but when Princess and I play at our home, in private, it often ends with lovemaking. It could be nothing more than me going down on Princess. One for the road so to speak.
Lately though the SM has become so intense; holding each other while sleep submerges us is extremely satisfying.
At a club BDSM is non-sexual.
When we visit a swingers club we have some kind of D/s routine that leads to lots of sex for Princess.
Obviously inviting The Stranger is about BDSM and threesomes and lots of sex.
I’m very busy with my upcoming eBook “Princess and I, The Year 2014”. It is about 260 pages long and I’m trying to get out as many typos as possible.
Browsing through the extensive Word-document I find stuff I had forgotten or that makes me smile.
In 2014 The Stranger was still an unborn fantasy. Yet at that time I was already telling Princess sexy stories about us visiting erotic parties. When we just met, some 2,5 years earlier, Spermslut was the first of a long series of erotic and sexy personae.
Recently Princess admitted she knew from the beginning all these slutty characters were variations of herself. An early Inga if you will.
One of my posts in September 2014 was about my erotic bucket list.
Little over 3 years later it is interesting to see what happened with that list written by a man who is still evolving sexually.
I would like to add electro play. It seems like fun and I am sure it will incite my inspiration and imagination when it comes to sex even more.
Done. Tens and a Neon Wand. Unfortunately it is not something Princess likes very much. It depends on how I use the Tens but the Neon Wand freaks her out.
I would like to go to a swinger’s party with Princess. Not one held in a sleazy shack where everybody is fucking like animals. Something statelier like held in a manor or castle. Think big, think Eyes Wide Shut. We would enjoy watching the couples and then enjoy being watched. Not sharing of course.
Done albeit it wasn’t a castle or nearly as intimidating as in the movie. It wasn’t a sleazy shack either. Seeing people fuck like animals is, for us both, a huge turn-on.
Note the last phrase, Not sharing of course. Hell, I didn’t see that one coming yet in 2014 although the fantasy was already there.
I would enjoy helping Princess discover and experiment with her bi-curiosity. I know it is something that lays buried deep in a dark corner of her fantasies. Obviously it would be with a woman of her choice and in a safe environment. Of course I imagine guiding Princess, slowly displaying her goodies and I would savor watching her kiss and touch and discover. It would be something for Princess only and I would touch her female partner with my eyes only. I have no desire whatsoever to have my way with someone else. Princess satisfies me completely in all my needs. Princess gorgeous and luscious body is all I will ever want and need.
Done and just recently by the way. A day before Christmas Eve 2017 and it kind of just happened. Amongst other things it show how Princess is enjoying her sexuality and how she feels safe in it.
I was wrong in what I wrote. Bi-curiosity is not lurking in a dark corner of Princesses fantasy. That was just wishful thinking. Bi-curiosity is for Princess a been there, done that kind of situation in her life before we met.
Tying up, fucking and making love to Princess in the woods or on rocks near a pond should be very hot too.
Done. I made love to Princess on a deserted beach in Denmark (2016). It was a warm and sunny afternoon and she was lying naked over a rock. She wasn’t tied up for the simple reason that I did not have any rope with me. Nevertheless it was extremely hot.
I like the idea of jars and fire and massaging.
We came very close during a workshop in PDN. Fire play fascinates us both. A jar and fire sucks the skin in and leaves like quite an impressive hickey. Not something I want Princess to have when at her place the bathroom is shared.
It is Saturday evening. In a few hours Princess will be here. Little A. is here too so my love and I are going to watch a movie. We are going to enjoy a good glass of white wine and “Blade Runner 2049”