Connecting with a couple

By sheer coincidence I came in contact with a couple on Fetlife.

Both are relatively newbies when it comes to BDSM. Johnny and June are eager to learn. Their dynamic is Top/bottom. Johnny enjoys rope play and June loves being a lust slave. There is more about them of course but the contact we have is still young.

I’m in contact with Johnny and he informs June and I inform Princess.

Playing with a couple was Princesses’ original proposal when we started talking about including other people in our scenes. At that time I did not find that a good idea. Including a man was plan B.

Finding that man and organizing a play scene was relatively easy and straightforward. Princess and I enjoyed playing with The Stranger, a submissive, and The Stranger 2, a switch in a dominant role, very much.

Organising a scene with a couple is a whole different ballgame. It wouldn’t if it was such sex like in swinging.

But this is BDSM and finding stuff we all enjoy. It makes it much more a challenge. I like that.
What’s the idea?

I would set up a scene with June while Johnny watches. For Johnny it is about pleasuring June with a good act and observing and learning.

So far so good.

But what about Princess?
She and June are straight.

Princess suggested she could help me like dropping wax over June on my command. That too was a no go for June. She does not like to be dominated by a woman.

Johnny hinted he, June and Princess could write assignments on pieces of paper and Princess would draw them. She did not like the idea as she wants to play a submissive role. So choosing assignments for me does not feel right for Princess.

Princess suggested I would play with them both. That could be a workable path but I haven’t a clue yet about a titillating scenario.

Princess also wants to know what I’ll be doing in my scene with June. Princess is horrified with the idea I would repeat our scenes with June.

I explained Princess it would be different because June’s desires are different too, her buttons different. But at the moment I am unaware of them. So I can’t say in what direction I want to go yet.
Furthermore we need to meet first, the four of us. Talk, have a few drinks and see if there is a mutual click.

I know Princess has an open mind about all this. Yet there are a few issues.
I would like to compare it with a person dreaming about doing a base-jump. When you are standing, there, all secured, jumping might look completely different from what you’ve imagined.

November 2016. Princess watched me tying The Stranger during our first play evening. After he left Princess told me she had experienced envy, maybe even jealousy. It was about the tying which she found was our private experience. Feeling like that had surprised her.

I believe there to be another issue and it is something I can completely understand.
Princess is my sub and I am her Dom. Playing with June might feel like cheating even if Princess is present.

Johnny and I have still a few things to tackle. The most important is how to include Princess actively in the scene without this being threat to June but very pleasurable for Princess. Then there is his role during and after the scene.

How about sex? For June and Johnny this is a yes. I would happily tag along too but I’m not sure about Princess.

The most important hurdle is Princess accepting me playing with another sub. With accepting I mean the emotional impact. True, I’m having some issues myself with the idea.

The last thing I want to do is to bring our relationship in danger.

Johnny and I continue discussing the event. A few days ago we phoned. We agreed to keep it short but ended talking for about an hour.
That is a good thing.

I like the way he thinks, his respect, his input. I’m looking forward meeting him. And June of course.

Princess, June, Johnny and I will meet on a Saturday evening in a BDSM club for drinks. If all goes well we can enjoy a kinky evening without excluding some basic mutual activity. If it goes no further, than I hope we still have a new friendship to harbour.

If for some reason there is no common ground or worse, we are all grown-ups and we’ll be playing separately and enjoy a great evening too.

This is an interesting and challenging road. I like doing this.
Connecting with kindred spirits and setting up hot play scenario’s as I did with The Stranger and The Stranger 2.

I believe this could be a fun experience and I’m sure we’ll be all learning something.

The Suffering of Princess
Model: Lena Rogerdottir / Setup & image: Me

Future plans

Next year is almost there.

We’ll have to get past the Christmas season first. The dying breath of 2017 brings the inevitable news shows with their annual looking back programs.
Then countdown.
Kisses, champagne, cheers, wishes, and fireworks.

I’ll be glad when everything will be back to normal.

We had a fascinating and very sexy year, Princess and I. We matured, we evolved and discovered new pleasures.

Princess and I grew closer and our love intensified and deepened even more.

I helped Princess deepen and liberate her sexuality by unlocking a hidden door buried deep in her most secret fantasies.
Princesses’ birthday was marked by her very first threesome with The Stranger and me. It was an incredible, hot, and very positive experience.

Later I introduced The Stranger 2 and after an intense BDSM scene I let him use Princess while I watched and gave her assignments.
That too was a very intense experience for the both of us. I’m pretty sure Sid, The Stranger 2, did too.

Recently I took Princess to a swingers club. In a D/s play between us both I offered her.
Two men enjoyed Princess.
For Princess and I it was an insane and very enjoyable evening. Back home Princess confessed she had enjoyed the evening even more than she could have ever imagined.

Maybe next year we’ll be closing a circle too. It started a few years ago when we started imagining having an extra play partner. Princess thought it would be safe to experiment with a couple. I understood why but I thought it would be cumbersome. I had other plans, other desires, other ideas. At that time though I wasn’t ready yet to tell her I wanted her to have sex with another man.

2,5 years ago, a couple, friends of us, proposed a woman/woman scene. Princess and I talked about it for a while. Princess isn’t even remotely bi-curious but kept an open mind. The more we discussed it the lesser I liked the idea.

Finally I told her about my preference, an extra man.
Princess liked the idea but wanted to try the woman/woman thing. A few days before the event the inviting couple had to cancel due to an accident. It was postponed but finally it never happened.

But the idea of The Stranger was conceived. It took me about a year of mind play before I was sure Princess would love it.

The swingers club we visited is for active couples because they invite a number of single men too. That’s why I took Princess there.

Princess told me I was free, and here I am paraphrasing a well-known President, to grab some pussy too.
Thank you, Princess, but I am not interested.

I’d prefer playing with a second slave or sub and because Princess isn’t into women.
To counter that I’m using Princesses’ original idea.
A couple.

Since a few weeks I am in contact with a couple. They seem interesting and compatible with us. We haven’t met yet though.

Princess and I have been discussing the possibilities but it is not without issues for Princess.

I’ll deepen all this out in a future post.

Three little knots…












Sometimes shit happens

Saturday, December 9.
For this evening I had planned a play evening with Princess at The Stranger’s place. He and I had exchanged ideas by mail.

The scenario I had created was scorching hot. Princess would be dominated and used. Spanking, rope, cock sucking, crawling, begging, fucking and finally a threesome. The works.

This morning I packed my bag with a few floggers, the fuck stick, a few vibrators, some rope and rubbers. Of course I did not forget Princesses’ red kneeling cushion, collar, and leash.

Then I texted The Stranger asking if 21:00 would be okay. In fact I hadn’t heard from him since Monday when I mailed him instructions. He had answered me he hardly could wait.

Half an hour later The Stranger texted me back. He could not receive us because past night he suddenly had become ill. He told me he was very sorry but we could meet on another weekend.

It would have been our fifth play evening.
Sure, shit does happen.
Yet I was almost certain this would happen. It was not the first time he cancelled a play evening on a last-minute notice.

I needed to reschedule and texted Princess a few options. 
We both felt very unhappy as we were really looking forward for some hot action.

This evening I am taking Princess to a sauna we visit quite often.
Yet I would have loved going to a swingers club. For some reason though I did not put in my list of proposals for Princess.
I don’t know why and now I’m kind of regretting it.

Ah well, sauna is great too.


Thoughts on next Saturday, December 9

It has been a long day. A day of cleaning and making sure his place is shining and neat. It takes his thoughts away from what is about to happen. Hell, he would be masturbating all day by the mere idea.

He hasn’t though. Now he is hot as hell and his throbbing cock painfully hard. Deep in his balls the jizz feels like scorching hot magma. His cock is in desperate need to erupt.

Finally it is evening. Almost nine o’clock.
The doorbell rings.
The Stranger smiles. Franco is a man of many qualities. Being spot in time is one of them.

He opens the door.
Franco extends a greeting hand.
Their shake is firm and warm.
“Please do come in.”

Franco enters. Princess follows him. Franco has her on a leash. She keeps a submissive posture, eyes down. Doesn’t say a word.

Inside Franco takes off her coat. Princess is wearing cuffs on her ankles and wrists. High heels, black stay-ups, a dark green skirt with an edge of black lace. A white blouse with buttons all the way down.

No bra The Stranger notices. Her nipples are hard and very visible through the thin fabric.

With a short yank of the leash Franco directs Princess to the sofa.
“Drop your cushion here,” he says.
He sits down and positions the red pillow.
“Yes Master,” she says. Since some time now Princess has expressed her wish to be not only his submissive but also his slave.

Princess complies. Her behind on her heels, hands on her knees. It is a position she can hold for quite some time.
Princess rests her cheek on Franco’s thigh. It is so cozy. It makes her feel safe.

Princess is so very happy. Over the years her Master has opened a whole new world for her. BDSM and sex is a huge candy store in which she enjoys tasting everything. A world where is as free as a butterfly.

She feels his soothing hand on her head, caressing her with deep love and care.

A year ago, after delving deep in her most secret fantasies, her Master had unearthed another box.

All her adult life Princess had been aware of its existence. She had stored that box in an almost unreachable place. It was her Pandora’s box and it held unlimited sexual freedom. Nobody had found it because she would not let it.
Until a year or so ago.

Deep down she knew her Master would be the worthy finder and owner of this treasure. Princess knew he would lead and protect her with respect and love.

So she let her Master find it. Unearth it and open it.

And as Princess had hoped with some fear, he had unleashed her sexuality. He had helped her discover and explore that new-found freedom. It was an arousing sexual freedom and it liberated the slut in her.

It had taken time though. Princess always had known being used made her very hot and did things to her body and mind she could hardly explain. Obviously she had to overcome a part of her upbringing that stood in the way.

Her Master had been patient and respectful. Her Master had guided her, letting her take one step at the time.

Little over a year ago Princess had experienced the joy of sex for pleasure and lust with another man.

Her Master had introduced The Stranger. She had sucked his cock and he had fucked her while her Master watched and then participated.

Princess had seen the pleasure and lust in her Master’s eyes while he read the same in hers.

After that he made her discover the pleasures of a threesome. Being fucked while sucking dick had been a maddening experience.

After that he had introduced yet another man, The Stranger 2. He too had fucked and used her hard while her Master gave directions and simply enjoyed watching.

Then her Master had taken her to a swingers club. Princess discovered a new kind of candy store. That evening he let two men, not together though, fuck her and she almost lost her mind. It was a mind-blowing experience.
It had brought them closer than ever and their trust became absolutely unbreakable.

Princess closes her eyes and enjoys the warmth of her Master’s thigh on her cheek.

“Drinks?” The Stranger asks.
The evening is about to start. Princess knows her Master and The Stranger will use her as the slut she is. She will do her very best to please them both and obey every order her Master gives.

The thought makes her wet already.
She can hardly wait.