Semenawa rope – First try

Tuesday, January 31

We did mainly rope-play and for the first time in many months I did a full suspension.

Very quickly Princess started to feel uncomfortable so I broke the session off.
To be honest I don’t like to do a full suspension. I know it looks great on a picture and they tend to be more popular on Fetlife and all. There is nothing wrong with that.

When I do a full suspension I don’t feel as connected with Princess as during simple rope play. I am worried, stressed about her safety. And even if I know what I am doing, there is so much that can go wrong.
Princess is not completely the same each and every day. She can take a lot but yesterday she got dizzy quite fast and feared she was going to faint.
Then Princess has also an issue with her joints so I have to take great care every time I do a full suspension.

So I prefer just intense rope play or a good floor suspension. Not only is it safer but I find it much more erotic, satisfying and pleasurable.

This kind of rope-play is artistic, full suspension can be too, it satisfies my skills and I am less distracted by the technicalities that come in play when you do a full suspension.
Here I can concentrate on pleasuring Princess, being close and very connected with her.
I see it as a very sensual dance. It can be slow or quick, the music is made by the rope and my movements and touches.
I can dominate Princess, I can push every mental button.
Doing rope this way is, for me, for us, an intense way of making love. A mating ritual if you will.
We feel so close when we do rope. It can be loving, painful, sexy, sadistic of a mix.
Very often I also add wax-play during a rope session.

When we do rope at the club, Princess wears a short kimono or a (very cheap) black T-shirt and (very cheap) panties.

When she is completely bound, I love to slowly pull the kimono open in order to show her goodies. It is a part of the scene and it makes her pleasure even intenser.

When Princess wears a T-shirt I cut it open with the knife I have been teasing her with, tearing it and then I do the same with her panty, I cut it, making a little show out of the action.

So for me rope is about tying, about mind-play, being close and not being bothered by a zillion safety measures. Mind you, I always take great care even with simple bondage, checking regularly with Princess if everything is still okay. In the end she is the one that knows best when it comes to her well-being.

I also introduced the Semenawa rope. It is nasty, scratchy coconut fiber rope and very rustic. It is surprisingly light and only suitable for sadistic floor-work only!

As I wasn’t sure if Princess would like it I bought only one length  (8 m) but now I have ordered 3 more.

Princess loved the touch and the sensation the Semenawa rope gives. She loved the scratchiness and enjoyed being tied tightly with this rope.
Princess imagined wearing a rope-corset made out if this rope. Every movement would then remind her of the coarse texture of the rope.

I’m thinking we are going to have quite some fun with this rope.

Semenawa rope

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