Thoughts – December 19, 2016

Past Saturday Princess and I visited PDN, our favorite BDSM-club and once again we had a swell and intense evening.
We talked with Paul and Mary whom had brought another couple with them.

After that we ordered drinks at the bar and talked with Serge and Jane. I do like Serge a lot. After many years of marriage Serge discussed his submissive/slave needs with his wife Jane. At first she was very reluctant but it is great to see how they evolved over only not more than 6, 7 months. Serge and I do write quite a lot via Fetlife and I feel a friendship developing. It is also very clear to me that Serge is topping his Mistress/wife from the bottom and that is quite an interesting dynamic.

The we played, Princess and I. Like I do most of the time I tie wrists against a horizontal bar attached to a hoist.

Mary told me she liked Princesses’ body very much, a clear hint for more. I thanked her but did not reply to the unspoken question. First of all Paul and Mary had another couple with them, also into both BDSM and swinging. I did not want Princess and I to be pulled into their scene. Secondly I prefer exploring The Stranger thing more in-depth before moving to another scenario.

I remember discussing with Princess what we did not want to do. Have unprotected sex and kiss other people. Not even two weeks later Princess and I were both tonguing the same woman. So much for limits.

I used my new whips extensively and did not hold back really so after a while Princess got into some pre-subspace. I untied her, led her to the couch and pulled a fleece over her and held her close to me while she sighed and moaned.

Finally I have Princess a much-needed release using a vibrator in combination with the nipple grabbers.

The evening was quite different from what we are used to. There was far more explicit sexual activity. It did not bother me at first. But after a while the moaning, the exhibitionist sex could not be neglected. I do understand exhibitionism but if you want to go further, the club has a separate space for swinging.

We watched a Domme do her thing with her male slave. Interesting as I made a few mental notes on how to play with a male slave.

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These past few weeks Princess and I have also been discussing The Stranger event. Are we swingers? What about monogamy? What do we have that is still ours? How do we feel about it?
It has been interesting and philosophic.
More on these topics later.

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I am not sure if I already mentioned it but Princess and I are spending New Years Eve at our favorite BDSM-club. We are so looking forward to this event. The organized a dinner party for a limited group of people.

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Lately Princess has been calling me Master instead of Milord. There is a world of difference between those two titles but I must admit I like Master. It is quite a different approach albeit we are not talking 24/7. We are not interested in that kind of dynamic.

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Princess told me she was looking forward to a new scene with The Stranger. Princess told me also she is open for much more. Even though I will protect our boundaries, even though there is a huge difference between fantasy and real world stuff, I am thinking our sex live will become even more intense over time.

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Occasionally adding a third person to a scene has nothing to do with our, Princesses’ or my reputation. It is nothing more than a deliberate choice emphasizing the trust and sexual freedom we give each other.

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Princess is not a slut. She is at all times a lady and only MY slut when I wish or want her to be a slut.
My slut that is.

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