The Stranger – Thoughts

`Yesterday I got a mail from The Stranger informing me he was free on November 5 and November 19.

I’ll check our agenda this evening just to be on the sure side but Princess and I have nothing planned yet. Well, we do now. The exact date will depend on when Princess… Well you know.

I have been doing some shopping already. This evening Princess and I are going to PDN, the club we have been visiting the most over these past months. At PDN we feel at home. There are lots of toys, 4 hoists and a few spots where one can play in a more private way. One can sit comfortably in the Dungeon and watch others play or watch a rigger do his thing.

Antwerp is great, people are dressed kinkier but here there is much more space and, important, a private parking so you can arrive dressed up already. PDN has also a few high-class rooms for spending the night.

So what did I get? Two pairs of stay ups, a cheap but sexy black panty. Then because I wanted one for quite some time a remote-controlled egg from Dorcel.

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When, in a few weeks, we’ll be picking up The Stranger with Princess blindfolded on the back seat, I’ll be giving him the remote control so he can connect with Princess already and I hope I will make him less nervous.

Also I bought flavored condoms. Strawberry if you want to know. Obviously we want to keep it safe and I’ll be taking some “real” condoms with me too but I do not have the intention to go all the way on our very first BDSM threesome. I want to keep Princess hungry for more.

One of my Readers asked my why this man and not another. And why did I write in my previous post I was hoping the man sitting in the car next to mine was not The Stranger.

An interesting question and something I overlooked in my post. I know the answer but I find it hard to explain but I’ll try.

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I had several criteria. In the ad I explained what I was looking for. I asked to clarify in a few short sentences why the one replying thought he was a Dom, a sub, a switch, whatever. Also I wanted to know what the candidate found attractive about BDSM, what his passions are. I also wanted a short input on how he imagined this first date to be. Finally, I made it clear I was looking for a man whom was willing, if everything went OK on the first date, to meet again. I am aware in the latter lies potential danger. On the other hand, I know how strong our relation is so I am not worried at all.

A mental note I made was that if any profile would be swimming in dickpicks or the profile text would be disrespectful of shabby in any way it would be a no-go for the person applying.

Indeed, I was thinking I would get quite some replies. To be honest I was thinking 10, 20 replies.

There were only two. The first one was rather unmannerly and short. I wrote back telling him I was not sure if he had read or understood the ad. His reply was even shorter. The idea of playing with us made him horny and I did not need to worry, he was no stalker.

I liked the other profile, I liked the reply so finally we met. After all, finding a man you are willing to let touch your wife and even more is not an easy task.

The guy I noticed sitting in the car next to mine while I waited did not appeal to any of my visual needs. I only saw his face but I did not find him attractive in any way.

On the moment we met I felt a connection with him. The way he looked, his body language, the way he spoke.

In the bar I felt really comfortable in his company. I did not feel stressed of guilty or bad or even jealous. In fact, he did not feel like a threat to me in any way.

I am a man but I am in perfect harmony with my feminine part. Maybe that little part of me fell somewhat in love with him.

It is not because you like a guy and you feel comfy around him that you’ll let your woman suck his dick.

So there is more but I have no idea what it is. Maybe because he fits the role for the “movie” I have in mind? Like you see sometimes people and you think, hell, if I were a casting director he or she would be perfect for a role as a mobster,  a whore, a troubled detective, whatever.

Probably The Strangers fills in other stuff too. Things I am, subconsciously, sensitive for.

(c) Doris Closter
(c) Doris Closter

Why do you fall for one person and not for somebody else? Why do you prefer movies with Clooney over those with Brad Pitt or vice versa?

Whatever it is I like him and I have no problem with the thought that this guy is going to make Princess cum, as I will order him, in a very near future.

The Dorcel remote controlled vibrating egg was quite a disappointment.  The 10 vibrating patterns are interesting but the vibrating power of the egg is limited. Adding some adjustment in intensity would be a good idea.

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4 thoughts on “The Stranger – Thoughts”

  1. It sounds as though you are planning this with great detail, which is good. Not being a man I don’t know, but it seems to me that you must feel very empowered by handing your wife to another man, and that it is powerfully erotic for both you and Princess. I hope it goes well.

    1. Albeit there are some variables that are unpredictable I am sure it will go well. It has deepened our relation even more already. Empowered, had to look that one up, yes, that is quite an accurate description. I will also take great care about the well being of The Stranger. After all he is a partner in crime, not a tool.

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