D/s, Princess and I

Past Tuesday we didn’t play. Instead we drove Stella to her psychiatrist and during the consultation we took little Star for a walk. Stella is now seeing her doctor every two weeks instead of every month. A sign even her shrink feels Stella is not well.

It was way past 10 when Princess and I arrived at our place. I poured two glasses of chilled white wine and we sat down in the sofa.

Princess told me she had been searching the Net for a discrete and inconspicuous collar to wear (almost) daily. It was very hearth warming to hear and it made me so happy Princess wanted to go even further in our developing D/s  relation. What she told me was way beyond my expectations.

A few days ago Princess had expressed her wish she could wear a collar during our week together. I liked and like the idea very much.
She can’t wear her play collar in public as it is far too apparent. Yet I don’t want to hurry and buy something on-line. I want to choose this jewel with Princess at my side. I don’t want to receive a box and find it is not what I expected and have Princess wait while I send it back and all that shit.

Such a day collar is not about submission per se but about unconditional love, intense trust and feeling owned too. For Princess it has the same symbolic value as a wedding ring.

Princess likes it very much when I take things away so she can concentrate on simply being happy and loved when we are together. Some decisions or actions she needs to do and then I send her an email with To Do’s and every item is well documented so she does not need to search for a phone number or any other information.

Princess makes decisions all day long, both at work and at home. So when she is with me she feels very comfy knowing I am in charge.

So our D/s relation has taken a new step.
I am thrilled by the idea.

But I’ll have to make a few minor changes to myself.
I find it extremely rewarding to pleasure Princess in any way I can and I love to take care of her. That will not change but in the process I tend to ignore myself. Doing so I ignore Princess’s wish to please me and no, I am not talking about sex.

Princess told me she yearned for things to do for me that made me happy. I had never given it any thought. Making her happy makes me happy, that’s all that is to it.
But when you give it some thought she is right. Doing something for your partner knowing it makes him/her happy is a whole different experience.

I like it very much when I am sitting on the couch and Princess sits or kneels at my feet, her head resting on my thighs whilst I gently pet her. Such a moment engulfs me with so much coziness, tenderness, love and joy. Yet I rarely ask her to sit at my feet.

So there are small things I will be asking her. Stuff that makes me happy but I never ask because I am always so busy making Princess happy.
I simply forgot not only myself, but ignored the fact she needs to pleasure too.

It is a slow process that we, Princess and I, are discovering. A great experience it is and it brings us even closer.

For us it is a natural process too because we both know who we are and how we want our roles to be in a more elaborate D/s relation.
We only need to do some fine-tuning.

Photo found on Tumblr.
Photo found on Tumblr.

6 thoughts on “D/s, Princess and I”

  1. If Princess hasn’t selected one yet, I would highly reccomend contacting Diane at MockingbirdLane Wire. She does excellent custom work and I love the bracelet she made for me. Enjoy your week together!

    1. We are taking our time, I really want to find something very special. MockingbirdLane Wire is one of the site we have been browsing. But first things first… our holiday in Germany 🙂

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