The Date – Friday, March 14

Princess and I arrived some 30′ later than expected at the Fetish Café due to traffic issues.

The bar was not very crowded, after al it was open to the 18+ public as a pub and not as a private club for members only. The Dungeon was closed and marked private. I already knew that behind that door a Shibari workshop was given. The same course Princess and I took a few months ago.

The three other couples were sitting around a table chatting and having drinks. Two chairs where waiting for us.  We already knew K&J of course and they introduced us to the other couples. We shook hands, exchanged kisses and ordered drinks.

We talked about the lifestyle, about do’s and don’ts, hard and soft limits, tips and tricks and respect. It became rapidly obvious we were all on the same wavelength so we agreed to rent the club for an afternoon and play together separately.

I was asked to synchronize the agenda’s in order to find an open window that would be convenient for everyone, a difficult task. None of the other couples have kids to consider but Princess and I do. I’m aware it won’t be that easy but I’ve put some dates together and use Doodle.com and we are trying to plan something in May.

Princess and I had a wonderful evening amidst these kindred spirits. Even though the other Dom’s are much more experienced than I am, one has even a 25+ career in the lifestyle, I never felt intimidated nor uneasy. And Princess had a great time too. There is trust and mutual respect and we all talk the same language.  I am sure playing together will be a unique experience.

It is difficult to believe Princess and I are already taking this step only six months after our first real visit to the Fetish Café. Six months ago Princess outed herself to the community and we played for the first time in “public”.
Princess and I are opening new doors and we are not only thrilled but very much aware this is only possible because we trust each other, communicate very well and love each other beyond reason.

We all left little before midnight with a very good feeling.
Back home Princess and I made intense and delicious rough love like we always do before finding sleep in each other’s arms.

Mirror, mirror...

2 thoughts on “The Date – Friday, March 14”

Leave a Reply