Expanding our horizon

Last night I didn’t sleep very well. Somewhere during the hours of darkness I woke up because I got cold. Hell, I don’t like sleeping alone anymore. I need Princess next to me, every night.
My love was, I hoped, sound asleep albeit in the wrong bed.

It took some time before I fell asleep again so I used the spare time to over think what Princess and I talked about on our way back home from the Antwerp Fetish Cafe. We always evaluate a finished play date.

Princess told me how she had appreciated the fact I had started the spanking and whipping slow and gentle. She added she also had the impression I had held back later on in the session.
Yes, I always hold back, I do not know why. At home Princess asks me for more or insists when she wants it harder. In the club though Princess prefers handing all control over to me so yes, I hold back.
Princess also told me she felt she could take more in the Fetish Cafe caused by the fact the environment, the Dungeon, works on her fantasy in a different way than our living room.

We also talked about expanding our horizon beyond the Fetish Cafe. K & J had talked about a non-commercial oriented group of, mostly, couples called Eyes Wide Shut. These people organize private events and K & J had attended one already  and what they told us seemed like fun.

This morning I subscribed Princess and myself on the website of Eyes Wide Shut. It is anonymous and you can’t subscribe when you are a single man. The website is also filled with lots of information, grouped by fetish like BDSM, watersports, swinging and so on.

Shortly after I got a friend request from K & J and a private mail telling how much they had enjoyed talking with us past Saturday evening. They also asked if we would be interested in hiring the Dungeon with them and a few other couples for private play and enjoy the unique opportunity to photograph our partners in a real BDSM environment.

I like the idea very much but only if two conditions are met. Respect for our hard limits stating Princes or I do not want to be touched by anyone else. Also I do not want Princess to be photographed but by me and that is final.

I’ll be talking this over with Princess and I am very curious what her reaction will be. And I’m pretty sure we’ll have fun exploring the EyesWideShut.be website too.

D/s

5 thoughts on “Expanding our horizon”

  1. I can relate you your feeling of not wanting to be alone in your bed. Each time Kayla and I spent time together and I return home it is more difficult to be apart and the bed seems empty.

  2. Sir Franco- the well wishers of the world are wishing tonight that they lived where you do- we have no ‘Eyes Wide Shut Cafe’ in US. And if we did, some progressive fuck would find a way to shut its doors. Those of us who follow you feel your pain that you are without Princess- it is evident in your writings. We are all hoping for you to be reunited with her soon.

    -Mynx’s Sir (Tom Wolf)

    1. Mynx’s Sir,
      The Fetish Café in Antwerp is a public place on Thursday and Friday evenings and on Saturday evening limited to paying members who are fully recorded before receiving a membership card. If everything is conform the law and insurance is okay the FC could organize a gangbang for its members if they wanted as it is a private gathering.
      What one organizes at his/hers home is also private as long as there are no complaints of obvious annoyance.
      The Fetish Café was also used for a Belgian movie about BDSM called “SM Rechter (Judge)”
      EyesWideShut.be is a private organization and what one does at home is private too as long as there is no annoyance for the neighborhood and everything stays within the limits of the law (no minors, drugs, animals…)
      In most cases repression starts after complaints.
      Princess and I live apart out of respect for her kids who don’t accept or know me. Give or take another 8 to 10 years before we can live together. It’s worth it, believe me 🙂
      Franco

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