A new playdate

Next week Ar’s internship ends and this means Princess won’t be fetching her daughter and dropping her at her student room before driving back home around 23:30. On such evenings, generally twice a week, Princess comes over to my place for the remainder of the night.
O boy, I love this so much, ending the day with Princess, travelling though the night with her spooned in my arms. Starting a new day with a kiss.
I hope Princess will still be able to crash once in a while at our place.

Soon it will be Princess’s birthday and we are going to celebrate in the Fetish Cafe during the monthly Fetish Lounge Club in the Antwerp Fetish Cafe. We’ll keep a low profile so there will be no Doms, subs or slaves chanting “happy birthday to U”.

Yet I do have planned something special with Princess’ approval of course. We are going to do a rope bondage act, no suspension mind you, and lately we have been practicing a lot.

The idea is to start with a basic takate kote adding embellishments around the shoulders and between her breasts. There will be more of course but the box-tie is the starting point.
Princess will be wearing her beautiful black silk kimono and a blindfold. The latter so my love can concentrate completely on the experience of being bound and because I don’t want her to be distracted by possible spectators.

Shibari is still very new for me so of course I don’t master it yet. I still have to concentrate on the technical aspect of knotting. This implies that I am still far from being familiar enough with roping to develop my style.

For now I’ll be looking at others and my temporary style is kind of mix of Esinem’s intense sensuality and eroticism and the more seemingly “unemotional” and more Dominant Wykd Dave. I like the ending of the attached clip where Wykd Dave and his partner, Clover, perform a simple suspension.
Check Dave’s site too, Rope-topia.com, it is worth your visit and time.

http://vimeo.com/55837565

This evening Princess and I will spend a few hours fine-tuning our little act. We will be playing too of course.
I am so looking forward having Princess at my place and play with her.

Image credits: Gert Lorenz
Image credits: Gert Lorenz

4 thoughts on “A new playdate”

  1. Sir Franco-

    I find such a peace when knotting my kitten up. Yes, for those quick moments mid-scene where you just need it quick, the Velcro cuffs work well, but those moments are becoming fewer and fewer. The satisfaction of creating an original work of art each time is just so free-ing. And Mynx also has grown an appreciation and delights in having the rope put in place and squeals watching and feeling it being removed with the same slow, deliberate sensuality.

    I don’t know if we’ll ever be able to take it to a public forum- limits are prohibiting that but as seems to be the theme for the past few weeks, limits are being bumped on and crossed like gates in track meet- who knows.

    Perhaps Princess will one day agree to posting photographs of your handiwork- a boundary Mynx recently allowed me to bump into with simple arm-bind during a scene this past weekend. Esinem’s work is so fluid- I hope one day to be at half of his skill-set.

    Thanks for your contributions to to this community Sir Franco- we do enjoy them so!

    -Mynx’s Sir (Tom Wolf)

    1. Dear Sir,
      The way we play, Princess and I, has shifted, a temporary one I like to believe. Playing with rope, its rough structure on her soft skin. Moves, sensual yet confident. So many opportunities to reinvent the act of loving. A harshly pulled knot replaces the tiniest of kisses and box-ties the enclosures of our arms. Rope bondage is like dancing a Salsa and a Tango at the same time.
      Yes, the way we play has changed because of the closeness we experience while tying and it emphasizes the trust, her vulnerability and us being in control.

      In the past I have already posted some images I made of Princess but I like to move to more well-thought out work.

      Esinem’s 2 DVD Set “Tying People, Not Parcels” Japanese Bondage is worth every dime. This and the video’s and books by The Knotty Boys are the main sources I use to learn. Of course I watch Shibari shows on Vimeo et al too.
      I am so happy this is also working well for you both. For us it really is a discovery and brings so much good in our already deep and intense D/s relation.
      Have a great weekend both!
      Sir Franco.

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